The Lost Virtue: Respecting Our Elders
True Story to Open:
In 2014, a video went viral of a teenage boy on a crowded subway in New York City. An elderly man entered the train, clearly struggling to keep his balance. While most people avoided eye contact, this teen immediately stood up and offered his seat. No words were exchanged, just a quiet act of respect. The train car clapped.
The boy later said, “My grandfather raised me to always respect older people. That’s just how I was taught.”
In today’s world, that kind of respect is rare. But in God’s Word, it’s expected.
Key Scriptures:
- Leviticus 19:32 (MEV): “You shall rise up before the gray head and honor the presence of the elderly and fear your God: I am the Lord.”
- Ephesians 6:1–3 (MEV): “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ (which is the first commandment with a promise), so that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.”
- 1 Timothy 5:1 (MEV): “Do not rebuke an older man, but exhort him as a father, and the younger men as brothers.”
Devotional Reflection:
Respect isn’t just good manners—it’s a command from God. In a world obsessed with youth, opinions, and rebellion, Scripture reminds us of a different standard: honor for age, wisdom, and authority.
1. Stand Up for the Gray Head (Leviticus 19:32)
This command is literal and symbolic. Physically rising when an elder enters was a sign of honor in ancient times. Today, it means we acknowledge their presence, defer to their wisdom, and treat them with dignity.
Respect is not earned by being flawless—it’s given because of position and experience.
2. Honor Your Father and Mother (Ephesians 6:1–3)
Respect starts at home. Honoring parents doesn’t stop when we turn 18. Even if our relationship is strained or complicated, Scripture calls us to treat our parents with honor.
And notice—this command comes with a promise. God ties long life and blessing to the way we treat our elders.
3. Exhort, Don’t Rebuke (1 Timothy 5:1)
We live in a generation quick to criticize. But Paul tells Timothy, a young pastor, to correct older men gently—as you would your own father. Respect isn’t silence—it’s correction wrapped in humility.
What Does This Look Like Today?
- At Church: Listen to the older saints. Their stories and struggles carry wisdom we need.
- In Conversation: Don’t talk over elders or mock them for not keeping up with tech or trends.
- In Family Life: Call your parents. Help your grandparents. Teach your children to say “yes ma’am” and “yes sir.”
- In Conflict: You can disagree respectfully. Correct without contempt. Speak truth without pride.
The Example of Jesus:
Even as a 12-year-old boy, Jesus stayed in the temple, astounding the teachers with His understanding. But when His parents found Him, He went home and was subject to them (Luke 2:51 MEV). Jesus—the Son of God—submitted to His earthly parents out of respect.
And on the cross, in His final moments, Jesus made sure His mother was cared for (John 19:26–27). That’s respect in action, even in death.
Questions for Reflection:
- Have I been honoring my elders the way God’s Word teaches?
- Do I model respect in my home for the next generation?
- How can I show practical respect to someone older than me this week?
Prayer:
Lord, teach me to honor